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Inspirational Quotes to Help Deal With Sisterhood Drama

Inspirational Quotes to Help Deal With Sisterhood Drama

Dear sorority sugar,  I joined a wonderful sorority as a freshman. However, lately I feel like I do not belong in my house. It started out amazing, and I was making wonderful bonds with quite a few sisters, but now I feel like an outsider. There is so much drama in our house. I feel pressured to pick one side or the other and I don’t want to pick sides. I just don’t know how to make it feel like I belong again, especially since my Little had to leave school and she was really the one girl keeping me in the house. How can I feel my membership is still worth it?

sorority sugar: The road through sorority life is never smooth! Sisters come and go, friends argue, and chapters disappoint. But you made a commitment to a larger organization, not just a handful of bickering sisters. Your own goals, behavior and sorority success has less to do with the action of others and more to do with what YOU can give to your chapter. Ask yourself, “What am I personally doing to maximize my sorority experience and make my sisterhood better?” Explore ways that you can bring positivity to your chapter during this time of arguing. You can be a role model for good behavior, instead of just taking sides in the battle. 

You need to rise above the drama and make sure you stay the course to achieve your own personal goals. Don't let negative sisters drag you down. You can get that lovin' feeling back again by rededicating yourself to your creed, your chapter traditions and the good hearted sisters in your house. It's time to turn a page and rejuvenate your sorority spirit. Tell yourself you're in this for the long haul and some sisterhood drama won't stop your dedication. 

These are 5 inspirational quotes that relate to dealing with sorority conflict. I find them very appropriate for your situation! 

“There’s a difference between interest and commitment. When you’re interested in doing something, you do it only when circumstance permit. When you’re committed to something, you accept no excuses, only results.” ~ Art Turock

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“I don’t believe in circumstances. The people who get on in this world are the people who get up and look for the circumstances they want, and if they can’t find them, make them.” ~ George Bernard Shaw

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“Whatever I have tried to do in life, I have tried with all my heart to do it well; whatever I have devoted myself to, I have devoted myself completely; in great aims and in small I have always thoroughly been in earnest.” ~ Charles Dickens
“We must all wage an intense, lifelong battle against the constant downward pull. If we relax, the bugs and weeds of negativity will move into the garden and take away everything of value.” ~ Jim Rohn

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“Happiness does not come from doing easy work but from the afterglow of satisfaction that comes after the achievement of a difficult task that demanded our best.” ~ Theodore I. Rubin
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